Your Cheating Hitting Heart

My fiance of 7 months has just told me he had cheated on me with his ex girlfriend.

I´d say that´s the least of your troubles right now.

Last weekend we "broke up" because he has some anger issues and hit me.

Why the quotation marks. Did you or didn´t you break up? (And if you didn´t, why not?)

I told him to leave my house and we got back together after a few days.

That must have been some crash course on anger management... Or is hitting not a deal breaker for you?

Last night he stayed out all night and I didn't know where he was. He came home and finially confessed that he was with the ex and had slept with her, not just last night, but last weekend when I "put him out" also. He told me he had to tell me the truth because he can't live a lie and loved me sooo much!

And he slept with her because he loves you sooo much too?

This OW has been a thorn in our relationship from the start, he just can't seem to let her go no matter how much he says he wants me and loves me now, she always seems to pop up in the picture too.

Because she gives good head?

I have even talked to her and she told me how my Fiance is such a dog and cheated on her so many times and she was done with him.

You didn´t hear correctly, she said that she was still done by him.

She even slept with his best friend to hurt him while he was with me, but he still chose to sleep with her again after that recently!

Because he´s... a dog?

He says he did it to hurt me like I hurt him by putting him out, but he hit me and I was truely scared!

But alas only temporarily.

What do I do?

Kick his ass to the curb? Get tested for STD´s?

I want to really believe him because he is so convincing and believable,

And of course a convincing act equals fact...

but at the same time i really don't know if he will really stop!

Whatever gave you that idea?!

am I just being a stupid idiot!

Uh, yes.

Love sometimes clouds the true view,

No, not love, just a skyscraper called stupidity.

I do love him and think he really loves me

What´s love got to do, got to do, got to do with it?

and maybe he has changed, advice,!

And maybe one day Elton John will become straight.