Jacking Off To The Phone

I have been married all of 9 months. My husband is a great guy. Would bend over backwards to make me happy.

I am truly fascinated by some women's definitions of a "great guy". It usually turns out to be some skunk that I wouldn't want to touch with a 10-foot pole.

But here is the thing.

This oh so tiny little thing...

I have noticed that he is like addicted to porn and phone sex. He doesn't realize I know about the phone calls when I'm gone.

If you tell me that you knew about this before you married him, I'm going to thump you.

Its affecting the way I feel about myself, and makes me conserned about how he is with our 4 month old when I'm not here.

You got married because you were knocked up? Good goin' twit.

Just last night, I had to run some errands. I came home about 2 hours later to hear my baby screaming in his crib and found out that my husband was apparently masterbating to a porn flick and on the phone with some sex line.

I don't know what to do.

Ask Lorena Bobbit. I'm sure she has a couple of good ideas.

I certainly want to do whatever I can do to make this marriage work.

Can you clap with one hand too?

When I confront him with things he just acts as if I am over reacting. I dont know how to bring this up without making him sound like a terrible husband and father.

Denial becomes you.

I just feel totally lost and even more scared.

I would feel scared too if I had so little brain power.

I don't want to leave the house without my son anymore.

When I'm home he is a doting father and husband. Its like a secret double life.

I hear they have a 12-step program for that.

Anyone here have some suggestions on how to make this better?

Stick your head a little deeper in the sand and your butt a little more higher in the air. Atta girl. (Kick)